TRIBUTE TO IKE RAMOTSHELA
Siile Matela
In his song; “You are not alone”, penned
for a well-known Gary, Indiana pop icon, the prolific
American songwriter; Robert Kelly laments;
Another day has gone;
I’m still all alone
How could this be
You are not here with me
You never said goodbye
Someone tell me why
Did you have to go?
And leave my world so cold?
The answer is to be found in William Shakespeare’s
As You Like It. Wrote the Bard of Avon;
“All the world is a stage
And all men and women merely players
They have their exits and their entrances
And one man in his time plays many parts….”
As we mourn the death of one such man of whom Shakespeare
wrote, we must not forget the many roles he played.
On the world stage, Ike Ramotshela had many starring
roles. He was a father, a brother, a lawyer, a friend
and a breadwinner. When I received the news of his
death; I was gutted with disbelief. I had to call
at least three people for verification. More devastating
was the manner of his death; merciless, tragic and
gruesome. With that, he left our world so cold and
us all alone. What a way to exit the world stage!
It is chilling to think that in a year’s time
and unless we all so something about crime, some
of us who saw him off will not be around to celebrate
his memory and will probably have gone as violently
as he did.
The Sunday World reported that eight bullets had
been pumped into his body. How cruel! Was any thought
given to his clients? What about his children, his
siblings? What about his friends and colleagues
again? What about his neighbours? There may not
be “a truckload of corpses” but one
corpse is one corpse too many. People are dying
violently. When will it ever end? Ike has become
a casualty of the killing fields that our beloved
country has turned into. We have to get our hands
dirty to stop the descent into anarchy and protect
our hard won rights to freedom and security of the
person.
Ike was a friend, colleague and brother to me.
Having met at the University of the Witwatersrand
where I had been his mentor, we continued our association
beyond the university into our legal careers. Always
eager to give counsel, he was not shy to seek it
whenever he felt the need for it. I could call him
at any time and he would be there for me. As for
him, he would call me and if he did not find me,
he would simply drive to my house just so that I
was in no doubt that he had been looking for me.
He even had special rapport with our dog and not
once did they fight. On many an occasion when I
needed a Commissioner of Oaths and we were working
late in our respective offices, Ike would hang around
and wait for me to finalize my affidavit. Better
still, he would simply come over to our offices.
Lawyers sell their time and for him to wait at my
convenience was remarkable generosity. For that,
I will remain indebted to him.
Practising largely in criminal law and motor vehicle
accidents, Ike would seek my counsel in respect
of civil work, the area in which I practise extensively.
I did likewise with him in respect of criminal law
matters and he would graciously offer me advice.
The man who conferred the titles of SC (Senior Counsel)
and CJ (Chief Justice) on me is no more and I am
deeply saddened. Of these titles, I did not protest
and was in fact deeply enamoured of them. Those
in the legal profession will tell you that they
do not come bigger than SC and CJ. It did not matter
what others would have thought of me. To him I was
the man and I mattered to him. I was his CJ and
that was that.
When he called me on the Wednesday before his
gruesome and tragic death, Ike gave me no inkling
that I would never hear his voice again. Like he
was wont to say, he went; “CJ, are you at
home?” Upon retorting that I was about to
leave my office, he pointed out that he would just
go in and have tea. I now realize that although
in the words of Robert Kelly; he “never said
goodbye” to me, he went to say goodbye to
my two daughters and wife. That my family- for whom
he had so much affection - will never see him again
is devastating. We are all shattered. His children
were showered with that love too. When Lesedi started
school in Mulbarton this year, he cleared his diary
to be with him. How sad that he will never see Lesedi
and his two other children graduate. For me, a bond
forged during our university days and transcending
our legal careers has been physically and violently
ruptured. His like will never be seen again.
I trust that you have now become acquainted with
the cause of our grief. As I stood there, metres
away from the place where Ike met his death, I was
tempted to find solace in William Shakespeare’s
Mark Anthony on the occasion of Caesar’s death.
Said he of the piece of earth that received Caesar’s
blood;
“Thou art the ruins of the noblest man
That ever lived in the tide of times”.
Of Caesar; Mark Anthony went on to say;
“He was my friend faithful and just to me”.
It may pass for sentimentality but the Ike I knew
was a man of considerable gentleness, generosity,
sincerity, nobility even. The piece of earth that
he walked on will be poorer for his departure. He
who “was my friend, faithful and just to me’’
is no more! To his family and especially his three
children, I return to Robert Kelly and say; “You
are not alone”. We are all saddened and mourn
him deeply. He will be sorely missed. I pray that
you will find strength and fortitude to deal with
his death. May you be comforted in the knowledge
that God needed another angel in heaven and that
whatever loss you may feel is God’s gain.
His footprints will forever remain in the sands
of time. He will live in our hearts forever. And
to you Ike; May your soul rest in peace. Thank you
for the memories. We love you more, much more. Until
we meet again, farewell Ike!
*** Siile Matela is an attorney and director at
FRP Inc, Johannesburg.